Founder MindsetEmerging Pattern
Deliver criticism immediately, in private, and focused on behavior not character
Critical feedback loses effectiveness when delayed. The HHIPP framework: feedback should be Humble, Helpful, Immediate, In Person (private for criticism, public for praise), and not Personalized. Saying 'you sounded stupid when you said um' is actionable; 'you're stupid' is an attack on character.
When to use
Any time you need to give corrective feedback to a team member
Don't do this
Saving up feedback for formal reviews, giving criticism publicly, or attacking the person's character rather than specific behaviors
1 Founder Who Did This
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Candor Incby Kim Scott
Sheryl Sandberg gave feedback immediately after a presentation, pulled Kim aside privately, and focused on specific behavior ('you said um a lot') rather than character
Result:Kim worked with a speaking coach and fixed the problem - something that wouldn't have happened if the feedback had been delayed, public, or personal
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